I just signed off of match.com after reviewing a few interesting "winks" from individuals who came across my profile and either found me attractive or witty. What I don't get about guys who wink instead of emailing is why they think they will ever land a date with me! Seriously, I do not want a pansy who is going to sit back and wait for me to make the move - I will if he seems fabulous, but I will attack him to see how he reacts to it. Next with the emails...if I see one more email that doesn't mention anything creative or different from an email that could be addressed to any girl on match.com I will not respond, even if the man is the most beautiful creature I've ever seen. I don't think people put enough attention into the "first email" and match.com successes are suffering as a result. I'm only venting right now for a small portion of this blog because I have a lot to catch up with. I've written some other rants but have not posted them due to their graphic nature. I'm going to try to include bits and pieces to catch the 3 people up who actually will read this :)

One more thing about match.com....if I read one more profile that says "I like to have fun and am looking for someone who likes to have fun" or a variation of using the word 'fun' I am going to scream...who the hell doesn't like to have fun? Can that please go without saying? You need to use your space to put unique things about you to get a girl to want to meet you. It probably annoys me more than it annoys other people, but any intelligent person should cringe when reading such a dull sentence. That's just my opinion, maybe its a little harsh. Maybe that's why I haven't had any luck on the site :) since my last disaster that is.

Allright, so the last time I wrote I gave some credit to a guy named FALCON who I had been on several dates with. Well unfortunately that didn't work out too well. After 5 dates, he expected my emotions to be further along, to the point that I would not date other people and start opening up quicker in what we call these days an exclusive relationship. Well I am really sorry, but I didn't have strong feelings for him after 5 dates...I was not given any compelling reason that I should stop dating other people and meeting new faces to be with just him. Things were just mediocre. I'm looking for chemistry and will not settle for anything less than perfect. I don't mean the person needs to be perfect, because look who's talking, I am definitely not perfect! I am saying the feeling I get when I am with this other person needs to be amazing and if its not, I will not feel bad about it. I don't owe anyone anything in this dating game. He decided that since I wasn't ready to commit to him after 5 dates, that I must have commitment issues and am a "serial dater" like every other girl on match.com. JEEEESUS are you kidding me? I took offense to that and we obviously do not talk anymore.

Since the issues with FALCON brew up, I have several interesting dating stories to tell. I am going to post this now so I can make some dinner...I'll write again later.